Originally Posted by
Troubledone 
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. Interestingly, my niece's therapist suggested she join him sleeping on the streets to be in solidarity with him.
By the way, this is the fourth guy I'v rescued her from over the past 10 years.
soooooo- her therapist is a crackhead and rescueing has only made it so you need to rescue yourself as it really hasnt rescued her from anything.
no!!
is a complete sentence.
so called BF got himself into his jamb and if he wants he can get himself out. people rescueing him has helped dig his grave.
people rescueing the niece has helped dig her grave,too.
the old saying,"i love them to death...."
people do that when they are enabling- theyre literally loving their loved one to death.
let em go, let em want help, find help, work the help,then love them to life.