Originally Posted by
the1975jen 
Letting go of what we cant control, or even "not stressing over it until we are at a mental place to work through it"...is awesome I think! I'm new here but not new to alanon, and what i see is when something needs to be dealt with you will know. it will continue to pop up and rob you of your serenity. It makes sense letting go has brought relief, I think. after all arent you just practicing detachment and putting it in the hands of your hp? besides, some of it will just go.. and the issues you do need to work on will be there when you are ready
I like that, not stressing over it until I'm at a mental place to work through it. I'm just going through life, trying to stay in one day at a time mode, looking for the good in life, and taking it as it comes. The other way I was working my recovery wasn't working. I have no idea why I hung onto that so long.