Letting go of what we cant control, or even "not stressing over it until we are at a mental place to work through it"...is awesome I think! I'm new here but not new to alanon, and what i see is when something needs to be dealt with you will know. it will continue to pop up and rob you of your serenity. It makes sense letting go has brought relief, I think. after all arent you just practicing detachment and putting it in the hands of your hp? besides, some of it will just go.. and the issues you do need to work on will be there when you are ready
