Originally Posted by historyteach
Going through with the wedding, under these circumstances will cost you any semblance of a normal life.
Excellent point, one worth thinking about.
Originally Posted by bikewench
To me... your problem isn't the drunk in your life...
it's why you would even entertain attaching yourself to a person who is so far gone.
Another excellent point.
Stacey, you are at a point where you can change things.
Give this some serious thought.
Ask the best part of yourself what she wants to do.