Please Do Not Get Married To This Person.
I Know It Is Frightening To Think Of Cancelling A Big Wedding, But Please Do Not Go Through With It. Not Now Anyway.
You Need To Impose Consequences And Postpone Weddnig.
Please Do Not Get Married. Get Out. Get To Al-anon.
Don't Let This Alcoholic Destroy You.
You Deserve More.
I Am So Sorry You Have To Go Through This.