Hugs Nichole, you are one of the bravest people I know. It must have been very hard for you to tell your husband that you're unhappy but well done for being honest with him, lets hope it makes him think. You are a very strong woman and you will get through this, but some things need to change. Now is the time to start putting up some barriers, you are entitled to a life, to be happy and your opinion does count. You've taken the first step so lets see how it goes from there. Lots of love to you.