BAIL OUT. BAIL OUT. ITS NOT TO LATE. BAIL OUT. BAIL OUT. ITS NOT TO LATE.
I am a male and a recovered alki. If this crap has already started, what is your life going to be like in a couple of years. What is your kids life going to be like in a couple of years. BAIL OUT. Forget the formalities and inconvenience of canceling the wedding. What is your life and your serenity and your peace worth.
Don't wait. Do it now.
If he gets sober and stays sober for a year and you still want him back, then revisit your and he's relationship then.
Bail out. Get out now.