Amaranth - you don't sound self pitying. omg - what a trying time you have been through.
It must be incredibly frustrating to not have the strength to fight back but remember, you won't always feel that way. All is not lost. It may be that when you settle all of this you can either end up with the farm or proceeds that might enable you to buy another, smaller one?
I don't know what size it is, could it perhaps be subdivided?
All that aside, you have come through the worst, you are on the mend and things will get better. There is frustration in waiting, but don't give up hope that you can sort this out when you are ready.
Are any of the things I mentioned feasible at all?