I was chatting to my brother in law before Xmas about his stag weekend that happened about 10 years ago, and I was there.
What surprised me was how little of that weekend he remembered, who was on it, the activities we got involved in, it is now resigned to the past, superseded by his marriage to my sister, the birth of my niece and the many other chapters written in his life since that have eclipsed that "social event".
Boil it all down and you're not missing out on anything, as many years from now, most won't remember you weren't there, or the weekend itself, and trust me you'll feel super proud when you look back and see you didn't compromise on your Sobriety!!
