I guess so firstymer! I hope I can handle this!
Trailmix, I appreciated everything you said
Fini, yes, it was nice to concentrate on something else for a while, that is for sure. And I really don't know about these things, but to me it didn't seem too expensive for all that was done. I paid €129 for the visit, the kitty HIV test, the neutering, 4 rounds of antibiotics, a shot for the pain in his mouth and a flea and tick treatment. He gave me the 3 extra antibiotic shots to take home but said I could pop in this Friday, next Monday and the Friday after and he'd administer it quickly free of charge. I certainly hope not to make this a regular expense, that is for sure though.
Right now he is outside somewhere. I hope that was a good idea to let him out. I figured he needed to urinate... defecate... I don't have a litter box. I also figure he has been an outside cat all his life maybe he wants some fresh air and time to himself. I don't know how these things work. I'm not dense, I just have never had a cat before!