So you're letting him run this, still.
If he calls or texts, ignore. Don't answer. Just because he wants something doesn't automatically mean you go along with it.
Last guy I broke up with wanted to continue to be friends, too. Um, no. Sorry, but you messed up, buddy. I'm done - we cannot be friends. I said it just like that and then I blocked him in my email, phone, facebook. I had to make the decision because it was what I wanted. I never talked to him again or corresponded in any way.