Originally Posted by AnvilheadII

that worry does nothing good for you.........or him. even if you knew where he was at any given moment, he's not likely to stay in that place with his feet cemented to the floor.

he's an addict. they are not dependable, responsible, or reliable.
he's going to do what he is going to do.

how about you bring your focus back to the baby now?
how are the preparations going?
do you have a room/nursery set up?
is it decorated?
have you been to all your ob/gyn appointments?
if you work, do you have a plan for how long you are out on maternity leave?
if you do not work, have you thought about childcare etc if you do decide to get a job? do you have a car?
car seat?
diapers?
onesies?
blankies?
crib bedding?
do you plan to breastfeed or use a bottle?
have you thought of names?
are you taking prenatal vitamins?
eating well?