Originally Posted by
atalose 
I think when someone demonstrates certain behavioral patterns it’s best to believe those patterns and not have expectations otherwise.
It’s probably time to stop expecting her to respond in a courteous normal manner or have respect for anyone’s feelings other than her own. The little one won’t be upset anymore if they are not put into that situation again. Your sister won’t have to sit and wait it out for 3 hours anymore either.
Alcohol is a progressive disease and as her disease progresses so will her negative behaviors.
Thank you, I guess you’ve hit the nail in the head, I’m afraid that it has progressed even further as usually we get an excuse rather than completely ignored, she often lets us down and I’m very used to that, although it doesn’t get any less disappointing. She is presently off work for 3 weeks and I guess she’s gone on a complete bender.
i am much better at protecting myself, just really felt for the little one and my sister (who living so far away doesn’t see all we do)!
Thank you for responding