Some things I've found out:
We're much more resilient than we realize.
Things don't need to be perfect. Imperfections, being human, allowing what I am in this moment to be enough is a really good thing.
There's many ways to heal.
Diatomaceous earth works great for getting rid of spiders. Non-toxic, pet and people-friendly. (sprinkled, being around it, skin contact or ingested is safe - do not inhale)
One day at a time.