Yes I told him. Then he gave me the "expectations lead to resentment" line and left. Later on he used those things I told him to ask me what was my problem with the PTSD, it's been a year and I haven't made progress. I went to my room crying, he followed me and continued to tell me I'm just being difficult. That was huge for me. He's never attacked me before like that. I've completely detached from him and told him I'm no longer putting myself out there for a man who won't be there for me. I'm going on with my life, I deserve better treatment, and I wont allow him to treat me like that. The ball is in his court.