from mango212 "staying focused on my own stuff and being an emotionally stable, confident, authentic, light-hearted parent."
That's the stuff right there.
And wow MCESaint, you did great letting the court decision speak for itself and just letting her get on the bus.
That's a big step forward for a lot of us - let them be, let them be, let them be with their own anger and their own choices...
By keeping your focus on your son you'll keep knowing what's the right thing to do...hang in there!
Peace,
B.