You don't know what his intent is and it does not matter. My ex would tell me things like I am fat, I am too hairy, and a lot more. I am overweight. So he was honest . I also have PCOD so I tend to have more hair growth- he was honest. What was not right was for me to start basing my self worth on it. I beat myself up over it so much that I could not even look at myself in the mirror . I started getting obsessed with wanting to lose weight and make up and all of that - I was becoming someone I was not and it was a bad place to be in . Do yourself a favor and find your own happiness . Not something that's described by another persons opinion of you. Hugs