Yet again.
So my good friend (don't really consider him my sponsor anymore) has relapsed yet again. I would think after the last time he maybe would have doubled down on his efforts at making the necessary changes to his 'program' to avoid this. He's not doing the work. That simple. His drunken ramblings are full of self pity and resentment. Yuck. And he apparently hasn't suffered enough consequences yet to want to make those changes. As for me, I'm thinking now that I've been enabling him too much. (I'm the one who winds up taking care of his dogs when he winds up in detox for 3 days). Not doing that anymore. Next time I'm just gonna call the cops and let them decide what to do with him. He knows darn well once he picks up he cannot stop on his own, and everyone else has to pick up the slack and take over his responsibilities.