Good job reclaiming your life! You should be living for you, not living for someone else’s crazy.

If that makes you “boring,” so be it. I like to joke that I worked my ass off to get this boring. I had to quit drinking and learn how to live my life as a sober person. I had to deal with all my stuff, real and imagined, and feared.

I bet that recovery for those those who love allies is pretty similar in that regard. So if you’re “boring,” that makes you amazing and evolving and maturing.

Id take that over stuck in my own crap any day.

You rock!