Originally Posted by
trailmix 
I don't understand the benefit of this suggestion at all, it is just a game or a test or something and who wants to play that game?
Being deceptive or manipulative is wrong, whether it's with an alcoholic or not (which I'm sure you already know and maybe that's why it has thrown you a bit?).
Yes its thrown me. I think she suggested this as it resembles a normal life where we both consider each other and take turns in driving etc....but why even bother when drinking isn't something l ever want to do? Soft drinks low cals all the way for me lol. I will be doing what feels right for ME from now on and that doesn't mean lm going to be totally selfish and uncompromising, just cant be arsed to play mind games 😁