I'm glad it went well for you, as well as could be expected anyway and that you got some of your questions answered.
It must have been a bit weird for sure. The whole cousin thing, I guess it's like free rehab with alcohol service. I imagine she thinks she is doing something good for him and maybe she is, who knows! Nothing else has worked - 4 rehabs. All that remains to be seen.
Do you feel any differently about it all now that you have seen him?