Originally Posted by
trailmix 
I hate to hear you say you aren't strong enough. Going in to this you need to be strong, hold your boundaries, don't let yourself get thrown around by his whims.
Decide on your boundaries beforehand, write them down if that helps, don't just just let your emotions lead you.
Thanks I had planned to do that, write down things I want to say, what I will and won't accept. Reporting back will be one of the things I won't accept. Who knows maybe after seeing him I might change my mind.