My father is refusing to tell me what hospital my mom is in. My mother is an alcoholic, dad is maybe too. My brother has serious mental health issues and I can't speak to him in a logical way. The alcohol is what really killing my mom. Never seen her without a drink in her hand since I was about 11 years old. I am 42. 30 years of daily vodka drinking. No wonder I became an alcoholic too. Nature and nuture. **** them.