Good for you for making a decision and adhering to it. I hope you have some friends who have been with you on that roller coaster, who can remind you of how hard you've tried and how much you deserve to choose your own life. The people you mention who are trying to guilt you into giving him another chance haven't been there through the muck that you've endured, if your experience has been like mine. Stay focused, visualize what you want in your life, and keep moving toward it. He's on his own journey. Maybe someday your tracks will intersect again, but for now, it sounds like you're making the healthy decision (even for him), to move on.