atalose, good point. I am assuming AH will be angry, since that's always been the way he responds. But, he may just surprise me! I have thought about the new living situation, so I'll propose my thoughts if we get that far.

We've been under the same roof, but sleeping in seperate rooms for a year now..so, to me, this is the next step. He's been angry all along, now mixed with anxiety/depression...so I guess I can't assume what he will do or say.

I did set a follow up appointment with my therapist in a few weeks. Looking forward to that!