Pgae 79 on amends: " Reminding ourselves that we have decided to go to any lengths to find a spiritual experience, we ask that we be given strength and direction to do the right thing, no matter what the personal consequences may be. We may lose our position or reputation or face jail, but we are willing. We have to be. We must not shrink at anything."
There is nothing here that leads me to believe I can include myself in "others", and grammatically, that would make absolutely no sense anyway.
However, that part of the book also explains that we ought to consult with all who might be affected before taking any drastic action.