When we lived in PA, I used to go to a Saturday afternoon meeting. It was large, diverse, had a good mix of men and women, young and older.
It was a great homegroup that helped me so, so much.
Since moving to Mass. i have not found a meeting that really clicks. There is a Saturday meeting nearby, but I’m not wild about the format.
I like step, topic, tradition meetings with speakers.
I love to hear about others’ experience, strength and hope.
I second honeypig’s recommendation that you try different meetings and Mango’s that you listen to podcasts and Al-Anon speakers.
I like Since Right Now podcast.
It’s 3 guys with many years of sobriety among them. They are great.
Good luck.