Old 10-08-2018, 02:44 PM
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Grungehead
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I'd say work the first 8 steps and then the answer might become more clear on what you should do.

I avoided doing the steps for over 20+ years because I couldn't possibly imagine making amends for some of the things I had done in my life. That kept me from the solution and permanent sobriety. When I finally worked the steps it became much clearer on what I needed to do regarding my amends when I got to that point. Each step is designed to prepare you for the next one, and by step 9 I wasn't the same person I was before I started the steps.
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