Originally Posted by
slangking 
Is it acceptable to apologize for this? Would they even accept it, i don't know them anymore.
I need help with this one. It could land me in serious trouble but I don't know what to do. It's the one thing that puts me off doing the whole 12 step thing.
Another thing to consider when attempting to contact this person who you sexually harassed while drunk: You don't know them anymore.
This woman might wonder why you are trying to contact her. She might even think you're stalking her even though your intentions are good, especially if you sexually harassed her. She could have a boy friend or husband who is thinking why is this man contacting her again and what is he really up to.
You could also have a girl friend or wife who is wondering why you are contacting this woman and might think your intentions aren't good.
And it could bring up painful memories to this woman who might have just moved on and gotten on with her life. These are some of the risks that are possible.