Clarrity….we have an extensive library, here on SR....about 100 articles on alcoholism and the effects on the loved ones...I hope you have been reading them. Do you know where to find them?
There is one article , in particular, that I think might be of help, to you, right now....
Here is the link....
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...-reposted.html (10 Ways to Tell When an Addict or Alcoholic is Full of ****, reposted)