Originally Posted by
BRM05 
She also told me that the counselors at the rehab facility told her that I was a narcissist and a manipulator and that she needed to get me out of her life. They have never met me. I mentioned this to my therapist and she told me that my wife was mirroring and that I was in fact not a narcissist. Why is she trying to make me out to be the problem when her alcoholism was the real culprit?
Addicts don't want to face the reality of their addiction or the damage caused/being caused by them,so 'project' that on to another person (you) and she's the good guy(in her warped mind).