Just sharing my experience. May be helpful for some, not for others. I'm no alcohol counselor!
I post here to work through my own stuff, mostly. I'd like to stay sober and I need to post here to stay on course. How it happened for me is, I made one small decision and that fact is so strange to me, that everything changed from that. Everything feels strange right now for me dropsie...
This post was not a lesson for anyone...It was for me.