ACoA. Never thought it applied to me until I wound up at a meeting one day. I thought I was going to an Al-anon, yet went to a different meeting place where an ACoA meeting was. No coincidence.
The opening was read and when they said "Adult Children of Alcoholics and Other Dysfunctional Families" I felt right at home.
Keep an open mind. Healing happens in unexpected ways. As I have more fun with life, the less other people's toxicity affects me.