Originally Posted by
Sasha1972 
If it's an ex-brother-in-law claiming to be in a gang and not your ex himself, I think that there's little you can do unless the BIL is directly threatening your kids. You can't go wrong by saving the information, of course.
Once the court order is signed, if the order says no alcohol while kids are present but ex is continuing to drink while the kids are present and you can prove it - that's worth bringing to your lawyer because it's a bright-line violation of the order.
My lawyer did state to me if the kids state that they see their father drinking while they are with him. We will go back to court and ask for supervised visits. But I feel like he is trying to be smarter than that by putting it in a cup to fool my kids.
Yes, I know I cant do much right now unless XBIL is an obvious threat to my kids. I just want to have as much evidence to prove that their father's household is not the best environment for the kids.