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Old 08-24-2018, 06:07 AM
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post


I know how crushing the shame is. Really.
This is my solution....

Every day I try to do something I am proud of, just one thing, and to be honest I mostly do way more than one these days....and that builds self-love. And as you learn to love and approve of yourself more, it becomes easier to look back at that shame without the crushing weight. And in time, you can even see all of the bad stuff in a positive light, because it has shaped the women we are becoming today.

Mixed tenses much? It's the untrained mind....
I desperately want to feel proud of myself, or maybe just love and accept myself. I decided this week to start small and work my way up. So.....keeping a better house and cooking proper meals is my first step....really showing that I care to my husband.

Also, doing my best at work. I get to show I care to others there too!

Have a lovely day Suze
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