Originally Posted by
Sissyfuss 
Right now I'm trying to decide if spending alot of money on the grandkids for back to school is really more of the enabling I've always been guilty of or is it something I can be proud of? Trouble deciding.
I consider myself co dependent. And it was hard to accept. I figured out most anything I do in love is enabling my addict. So now I'm hands off.
But in your case with children involved no one could think it's a bad thing to do for the kids. It may still be enabling cause it's allowing the addict to not feel the consequences of getting high with money instead of buying school clothes. Saving them from consequences of their actions.
Your situation is hard. I'm sending positivity your way.
And personally I hope u grabbed some school clothes for the babies.