Originally Posted by
Atlast9999 
No, I don’t blow smoke in his face. I smoke outside only, alone. My original (poorly written) point is that he can’t stand the smell of cigarette smoke on me so therefore I shower before bed so he doesn’t have to smell the lingering smoke.
I guess I more meant that your husband "absolutely hates" cigarettes - I can relate, I grew up in a smoking household and they turn my stomach. So he has absolute hate for something that is fundamentally horrible for your health and yet you continue to do the practice, even on the porch, at your home, daily - and yet are upset about his drinking? Do you see the contradiction here?