Originally Posted by PuzzledHeart

Honestly, I don't know if your first visit should be to a therapist or a lawyer.

Do you have his written explicit permission to touch his money? Do you have Power of Attorney? If not, he may accuse you of embezzling his account, especially when the funds run low.

I'm not a lawyer so I can't tell you with any confidence if an email with his username and password to his bank account is good enough to pass muster (that said, you SHOULDN'T use email to pass along confidential information but that's another story for another time).

I would concern myself with making sure I was legally protected before continuing to pay his bills.