Originally Posted by BlownOne

Maybe bait the hook? Tell him understanding brings intimacy. The more willing he is to humble himself and learn about what you're going thru, the better communication can be and it's one step closer to being back on track. "Normies" have a very hard time comprehending the mind of an alcoholic, and early recovery can be a chaotic time in the brain of a newly recovering person. He would do well to go with you to the therapist. But regardless, don't let his lack of willingness derail your recovery. that's what needs to come first right now. His libido can wait. It won't kill him.