I think maybe my therapist is just a bit too eager to turn me into a "fully normally functioning adult". I have the feeling that nothing may just be "who I am" in her opinion but everything is just another symptom of some kind of childhood stuff.
Regarding the dish clothes Renvate, I know I could say no. But to be honest, I just hate when things in my home are changed. Even tiny things like that. It causes me stress for a few days or weeks. On the other side I couldn't mind less which colour our dish clothes have, I just want to avoid unnecessary change. But I am expected to learn to be more flexible about stuff like that.
Setting boundaries can be hard for me too though.
Wastinglife, I am not sure what you mean?