I grappled with this a lot in my 20s and 30s.
I think if there's a choice one should always be happy.
If being authentic gives you that, then go for it!
If you can make the occasional foray into society and interact a little as well?
so much the better
I really do find like attracts like.
I've met some amazing people in the decade or so since I decided to be just me
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