Originally Posted by
kevlarsjal2 It feels like I can't get those two together. So I would like to know, how do you do it? How much do you bend over to fit society and how much are you being your true self? Or did everything I say just sound very strange to you?
Nothing you said sounded strange; I can identify. I guess for me, if being my true self is going to hurt or inconvenience others, then I try to be on good behavior. I don't see it as inauthentic, just more mannerly.
But weird and awkward is also kind of my comfort zone, so when it does no harm that's where you'll find me.