I'm glad you're on Day 3!
My belief is that stopping drinking, as you are, is the beginning. But, it's not going to fix things in your life and make you happy. That's what recovery is about. I think if you plan to stop for 30 days, you may be holding you breath until day 31 so you can have a drink again. In my opinion, it would be better if, during those 30 days, you began to make changes in your life that would bring peace and joy to you.
You know we're here for you.