3 months dating. I try not to judge, but I felt his dating history at age 55 told some story. Also, he has literally filled up his life with projects, sports, classes, so much so that he didn't have time to date. Believe me, I like to be busy, but not at the expense of not finding one day in the week available. Strained relationship with his ex. He's very judgemental to his family members who do drink, so much so that I was very uncomfortable at his bashing them. Odd, very odd relationship with dog. Controlling of his adult daughter, plays savior and then other times not there at all. I asked him where his middle ground was, he admitted he was a "go big or go home". Very competitive, plays in an adult ice hockey team, very upset with himself when he played less than spectacular. I loved watching him play, regardless.