Dating a man/17 years sober
Hi, a little background. I am dating a man 17 years sober. He came in seemingly so perfect, attentive, spoiling me, wanting to share a lot of time together except he seemed to be overly attentive to his dogs needs, total control of his cooking, constant talk of his work. I also realized he seemed very disinterested in ME in general, not really interested in hearing about my life, at all. Almost going thru the motions. Cut to a long weekend at his family Lake house. I questioned him on his nonattentiveness, and control issues, and he went crazy. ZERO to a 100. Accused me of trying to change him, when I was addressing the disinterest in me. He then ghosted me after we returned. This is a guy who was so in like, then Jekyl and Hyde!!! Then, accused me of being psycho when all I asked for was communication and a simple discussion. Who shuts off the like valve so fast? What happened here? It's like he was a robot with zero feelings. Feeling so confused, I feel like I was set up.