Thank you for the advice. I've often though that maybe this is the best it will be with him but that thought alone is sad in its self. I want to be able to communicate with him and overcome this problem together but I am also very aware that there is only so much I can do. I don't feel like I'm at the point of just giving up on him(even though it's incredibly stressful) but I know if he becomes the way he used to be then it will eventually destroy our relationship.