What about his sudden "I'll get an apartment" statements after I said his statement was inhumane and a deflection from the fact that that evening, he drank too much and picked fights?
Did I do something to suggest or deserve him sleeping downstairs and saying I need to divorce him?
Am I wrong for thinking he should apologize for his "you lived but at what cost" question ?
Originally Posted by
trailmix 
I don't know that he meant that it wasn't a good thing that you lived.
This is the kind of statement you might make to someone if they did something on purpose, not to someone that had to get treatment and have recovery time for an illness.
It's skewed thinking, it's nonsensical. You can't make sense out of nonsense.