Originally Posted by
FeelingGreat 
Hi QT, I was wondering, can you control his behaviour when he's under the influence, or are you putting up with him pestering you because you don't want to hurt his feelings? You can't stop him drinking, but are you able to perhaps go to another room and tell him not to follow, and say it again more forcefully if he ignores you?
If that's possible, maybe you could set a boundary that you won't spend time with him when he's drunk? I'm thinking of your peace of mind, not a way to punish him for drinking or force him to stop. It's not a permanent solution, but it might give you some relief.
I’ve tried ignoring him, I’ve tried telling him to F off and leave me be, i can’t tell if he can’t remember five minutes later or just doesn’t care. I’ve left and gone for walks from time to time but I don’t really have anywhere else to go afterwards. I live in a really small town where everything closes early and don’t have tons of friends nearby.