He said he understood, and can be patient, but keeps kind of trying to push it , and asks to spend more time with me than I am ready for.
red flag there,eh?
whats youre gut say?
dont ya have enough on your plate?
whats your therapist have to say about it?
one more thing on what i highlighted above:
and can be patient
patient for what? did ya say you were gonna make him dinner??
that statement has a wee bit of a creep factor to me- especially from someone youve only texted and met a few times.