Originally Posted by
DontRemember 
You answered your own question; "I need to not make these things mine." I get where you're coming from,because my mother still spoils my 22yr old daughter. My daughter has a great job,money in the bank,car paid off(I bought that for college),lives with me for free and my mother just throws money at her like crazy still. It's really weird,BUT it's not my business. They're both adults and can do as they please. I still think it's odd as hell though.
I know! They are all adults and it really has nothing to do with me. He can treat them like **** and if they choose to accept this then what can I do? I think I really have to accept that just because I see it as wrong, it doesn't mean they do..........and the only think I can control is whether or not I accept his behaviour towards me. Weirdly, these days, that tends to be ok!! Maybe cause I don't see him much
